You Get What You Need

June 27, 2010

We thought we wanted a golden retriever… a goofy, playful, ball chasing, loveable family dog. But, as Cesar Millan, the Dog Whisperer, once said on his show, “You don’t get the dog you want, you get the dog you need.” (I wish I could do the accent; it sounds better with the accent.)

Domino has turned out to be exactly what we needed. He isn’t actually all that playful; I think being kept outside by himself for the first couple of years of his life didn’t teach him much about playing. He doesn’t even seem to notice when a ball bounces by his head. But, he is silly, which is actually more amusing. He is unbelievably adorable and super soft. He doesn’t really play with the kids, but his is unflappable when they play. He is the first dog I have ever seen sniff a tambourine when a child was shaking it… seriously. He is unfailingly gentle, completely bombproof and always ready for loving in any form. The kids can lay on him, poke his feet, pull his ears… it’s all good with him… he takes it as love, which is how it’s actually meant.

John ruining the dog

So, he may not be what we thought we wanted, but he is exactly what we needed. And, we have had a ball with him this weekend. The kids are taking turns having him on their beds at night while reading books… he loves it. Jake put his blanket over himself and Domino today and they lay on the floor and watched TV together.

If you or anyone you know is looking for a dog, I can’t recommend the Death Row Dogs program enough. You can find it at McMuttigans.com. The whole experience was wonderful, from meeting the inmates to getting our super dog. He is very well trained; he knows all his obedience commands and basic good manners, is house-trained and crate trained. He doesn’t jump on you, or rush at the door or chew stuff up; it’s been a wonderful way to get a dog. They get 25 dogs every three months and Domino was the 484th dog they have rescued from euthanization. People come from all over the country to get their dogs and we feel lucky to have found them. They had four dogs from Domino’s class that had not yet found a home, including a beautiful chocolate lab. Surely, someone we know needs a trained dog….

Too hot to do anything this week, but swim and maybe, go to the movies. We go back to the clinic on Thursday for a counts check and, hopefully, they’ll be up so we can get a little more freedom after that.

On a sad note, Ellie, the little girl I asked you to pray for last week, passed away the very next day after my post. I don’t know what else to say about that, except to say cancer sucks.

Love,
Beth

6 thoughts on “You Get What You Need

  1. ANY TIME YOU HAVE A BIG OLE DOG THAT CAN LAY IN YOUR LAP LIKE A BABY IS A VERY GOOD DOG. I THINK YOU JUST GOT A NEW BABY IN THE HOUSE. LOL IT’S JUST WONDERFUL.

    SORRY TO HEAR ABOUT ELLIE AND SUCKS DOES NOT EVEN DO THIS THING JUSTICE !! BUT CAN’T SAY MORE IT WOULD NOT BE NICE.

    ENJOY YOUR NEW FAMILY MEMBER.

  2. I’m so happy your family was adopted by this sweet dog! It may take a while, but I’ll bet he learns to “play”. I have a rescue sheltie who didn’t know the first thing about being playful. After about a year, though, he figured it out. He’s been a wonderful addition to our family for 12 years. Domino… what a perfect name! Love, Janice

  3. Oh – he looks so comfy/content, like he’s been there forever. What a good dog. Can’t wait for him to meet Moose and Bella! They can teach him to play. 🙂

  4. When Domino gets over his shock of how incredibly lucky he is to have a family with Jake and Tanner, and you and John, maybe he’ll start playing. I can’t get over how much love and contentment is in those photos 🙂 Looking forward to hearing and seeing more!

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